Question of the day. Taken from the YouTube comment section.
Why would you go after working girls or bar girls if you can have it for free? Why would you pay for it? #LOSER!
- For the same reason that you shouldn’t stay in a $9/night hotel room.
- Funny enough, it’s the same reason that anything “free” isn’t really free.
There’s always a catch.
With girls, that catch is time. You gotta put in the time.
Whether that’s one date, or dinner – doesn’t matter. That is the resource you have to use to “pay” for a supposedly free girl – time.
Don’t think of money as money, think of it as a resource. You need to invest a resource to get what you want.
In my book, anything can be a resource. Time, money – and yes, even attention (which is time).
A girl might not even cost you money, or time … but if you’re constantly thinking about her (whether that’s positive or negative) – then she is costing you your attention.
Now you should realize that no girl is free & that free download isn’t really free either. It might not cost money, but instead you have to wait 5 minutes for the download to start.
Thus, costing you time.
A 9$ hotel room is cheap. You are saving money.
The first condo I’ve rented was cheap too … or so I thought.
Well, no it was in fact cheap. Yes, I was saving money, but at the same time, I was wasting half an hour for something menial like buying food from 7-Eleven or taking the taxi to the BTS station.
There’s something else to consider when talking about different types of girls …
Working girls & normal girls – you are comparing apples & oranges. You are comparing a car mechanic with someone who works on his car as a hobby every other weekend.
One is an expert, the other an amateur.
You get what you pay for & once you grasp that, you will reach a point where you can see through the illusion.
The illusion being that money is the holy grail. You realize that time is the holy grail & you are super happy being able to spend some of that fiat money instead of having to waste your so very precious time.
- You can always earn more money. You can lose it all and recover.
- You can never get your time back.
The older you get, the more you realize,
‘Who cares about the money, I’m running out of time!’
Of course, if you’re a 15 year old guy watching my videos, you can’t relate to that. You’re like,
‘I ain’t got no money but hell of a lot of time. #YOLO!’