What’s the difference between a Thai girl & a hooker?
Is sex with regular Thai girls boring after you’ve been with a professional?
Interesting questions & I’ll answer both in-depth today.
Disclaimer: Everything I say in this video is based solely on my personal experience. Some of the things mentioned and opinions stated will be very controversial and offensive to some.
In this comparison I will only talk about one specific type of working girls: freelancers. Girls that work on their own – on the street, in clubs or online.
To a large extend same things will also apply to bar girls (beer bars, gogo clubs).
Girls that are excluded from this comparison are the ones that work at certain venues such as massage places for the reason that they are somewhat limited in how they can engage with a customer – after all, they are employees.
Thai Girls, Grey Area Girls & Hookers
If you’ve never been to Thailand, you might think of this in either or terms. Either a girl is a sex worker or she isn’t. There isn’t much room for anything in between.
Not in Thailand (and many other Asian countries).
Example here would be guys I personally know. One guy approaches and dates this girl he meets at a certain venue. Regular girl, right?
… or so it seems …
A few weeks later, another guy goes up to her and suddenly she is asking for money. Maybe not a regular girl after all?
Well, this is what I’d call a grey area girl or semi-professional. Depends on her situation and the guy she meets what the conditions are.
If she likes you, she might go for free, or get naked after you invite her for dinner … for another guy that won’t cut it and she’s asking for 2,000 Baht.
The same applies to girls that ARE professionals. Girl that I met is a full-time massage girl (the naughty kind of massage), but when I approached her at the BTS station during the day, she was a regular girl and not anywhere in between or after the hook-up did she ask for money – directly or indirectly.
I am not saying this to brag, but to tell you what I realized a long time ago:
Many so-called “good girls” are open for alternatives to the traditional dinner date & in most instances simply paying her won’t make one bit of a difference in terms of what the experience will look like for you.
Freelancer = Girlfriend Experience
Remember how I just said that whether you pay her or “date” her won’t make much of a difference? Okay, big, big generalization here. Doesn’t apply to all instances.
Of course not.
Instead what I am saying here is that with some freelancers you will click and have a great time in bed. You will have a great time, they are totally “into” you.
Anything you want to do, they are up for it – that’s how aroused they are.
With others, it will feel like a rip-off & they try to get it over with quickly.
In my experience almost identical to regular girls. Some you’ll have a great time with in bed, with others you will feel disappointed that you spend time getting them into bed in the first place for this lousy experience.
If we think of time & money as interchangeable in this context, we’re talking about the same thing. Of course, for you, there might be things that you are doing in your head that make regular girls feel like a victory, etc.
That’s all fine too. In that case, there is a difference for you. All I am saying is that I don’t feel that … not anymore.
Victory, pride, ego-boost … the first couple of times, until you realize that most other guys have AND/OR will do the same, so your feat of pulling that hottie isn’t anything special.
It’s a great experience, but it’s not some sort of ego thing or validation anymore. Weird thoughts, I know. Just my experience.
Real Differences: Experience & Safer Sex
Those are the real, noticeable differences between a regular Thai girl and a working girl.
When I think back to all the regular Thai girls, I can only remember 2 instances where the girl was actually somewhat leading in the bedroom.
The first girl was drunk already – she was quite nervous during the date and by the time we went back to my place, she had already lost some of her inhibitions. So, probably not her nature, but I’ll count that anyways.
The second girl was actually the massage girl I mentioned before. In her case it was confidence backed by experience. It was her job so she knew exactly what to do and actually, it was quite a nice change to experience such a girl.
That being said, my experience: Regular Thai girls rarely lead, plus you will encounter some that are very inexperienced.
With working girls, this is not as common unless the girl is completely new to her job.
Nope. No unprotected BJs anymore.
The other thing isn’t necessarily a difference, it’s just something that I handle differently with working girls.
Absolutely no unprotected oral with working girls (ever) and mouthwash before and after kissing (if I opt for kissing).
With regular girls I quite enjoyed oral but 2 times it has lead to a urinary tract infection. A bit painful, you gotta take antibiotics – and I decided for myself not to do BJs anymore.
No real pleasure with a condom on, so oral isn’t on the menu anymore.
Foreplay: The Pre-Bedroom Difference
The other major thing is of course that with regular girls it’s rare that you go down to business as quickly as with a working girl.
I mean from the time you first meet the regular girl. Can be quick but rarely is it where you meet & get naked only minutes later as you would with a freelancer.
STD Risk Paradox – Do You Get This?
This is something many overlook or play down.
It’s hopefully common sense that when you get intimate with a person that has intercourse very frequently, statistically-speaking your risk of contracting a disease is higher then if you were to mate with someone that engages in sex very rarely.
Based on odds. I know, not 100% true, but bear with me.
So most will play it safe & wrap it up when buying services from sex workers.
Then they rationalize not using protection with regular girls because those have sex less often OR simply because that special one they met is …
Wait for it – my favorite Thailand-related 2 word-combo …
Wait for it …
Wait for it, just hold out a bit longer.
Because she is a …
‘Good Girl’
The logic just doesn’t make sense to me. Unless you are having sex with a virgin, it’s always higher risk going unprotected – regardless of the girls sexual history.
Last thing I want you to be aware of is other guys’ experience & their stories. It’s quite common to read on a blog or forum online the story of a guy that has banged 100+ girls raw and has never had any issues.
Nothing. Nada.
That surely must mean ONE thing:
The STD risk is blow out of proportion. It’s part of a propaganda machine, created & run by …
The Illuminati.
They don’t want you to enjoy sex and condoms are their secret weapon to population control. This is how it’s being run behind the scenes.
I could play Roulette, put my entire savings on the line and win. Would you think that it’s any less risky to do that now that I’ve had a positive outcome?
Nope, the odds are still 50:50 – just like the risk of contracting an STD is still the same, regardless of what the random dude online or your buddy experienced.
Philosophical Approach
If I use a philosophical approach here, I could break down the imaginary walls that separate a regular Thai girl and a freelance sex worker even further.
By asking one simple, but above-average long question:
What’s the difference between a regular girl that goes to a club multiple times per week and goes home with guys after they invite her for drinks AND a girl that does the exact the same thing – maybe even at the same venue – for money?
You tell me.
I see little difference.
The good girl might just want to hook up with guys, asking for money she would feel dirty and getting invited for drinks before hooking up – perhaps, I don’t know – might be so she can tell herself that she has some value.
“I would never go for free.”
I know, these thoughts.
In all likelihood, you have already closed the video because my thought process has gone haywire or it’s just too deep for you to qualify as easy-to-digest entertainment during your lunch break.
What follows …
My Recommendation
A question asking me to compare these 2 types of Thai girls most likely comes from a guy that lacks experience with either – or both.
That’s totally fine. Hey, I’m the last person to judge you.
So, if that is you, here is what I would do in your case.
Try to put preconceived notions, stereotypes aside and experience both. If you think regular girls are a waste of time, make an effort to meet, date and bang a few of them.
If pay for play is something that absolutely disgusts you, that would make you feel like your are a loser – give it a try anyway.
Not only will this help you think differently, it’s the only way for you to find out which you prefer and what differences (if any) you notice.
After all, as entertaining and interesting as a video like this might be – none of what I said might hold true for you. It’s all based off my experience.