Update – December 16, 2016!
This ThaiFriendly review was initially written in March 2015. I am happy to confirm that all strategies below are still accurate. I have used the site again during a short Bangkok stay just a few weeks ago & was able to replicate previous results: 3 dates, 3 lays.
Laying 11 girls off ThaiFriendly in roughly 2 weeks in a nice feat. And while there’s always a next level, I consider myself pretty experienced when it comes to online dating. More importantly, I made plenty of mistakes that was able to learn from and now use the new understanding to improve the entire dating process.
I can see how I would come across as pushy regarding the premium membership at ThaiFriendly. No question, I AM pushy about this. The rationale is that I dabbled around with the free account and never got anywhere – it’s probably my biggest regret to date. The frustrations dealing with the many limitations and the waste of time could easily cause people to give up entirely.
The premium membership on the other hand allows you to send unlimited messages to ANY girl you find online. For 3 weeks, you are able to test everything and if you don’t enjoy the features – get a refund. This is the perfect way of sending copy and paste messages in bulk.
To be specific, I am talking about 80+ messages at a time and receiving and equally amount of phone numbers in return – on any given day!
What you write in your messages and the way you communicate with girls is obviously the determining factor of whether or not you’ll end up on a date or just waste a lot of time chatting to a random female online.
Using copy and paste messages is an absolute must if you want to meet and bang lots of women. Crafting personalized messages or trying to approach every single girl from a different angle surely works but it’s too big of an investment in my opinion. Most girls that are open to a date and interested in you will not care much about that anyway and respond to standardized messages just as well.
As long as the copy and paste message is not something stupid as “Hi, how are you?“, you are good to go and even that works in some cases. In a previous post, I’ve alluded already which messages I use to bait girls.
The same way I don’t use personalized messages, I would drop any kind of wit, humor or teasing. Most girls won’t get it anyway and some will misinterpret and find it offensive. Unless it’s obvious that the girl has superior English skills (rarely the case), it’s a total no-go.
I’ve messed up things that way with at least one cute girl that was eager to meet up – only because I made what I thought was a funny remark. She didn’t understand the joke and is probably pissed off to this day.
However, since we’re talking about human interaction, at some point one of the girls will be pissed off or angry. It doesn’t matter whose mistakes it was, if I want to bang this chick, I will apologize and say that I was wrong and understand her point of view.
I tried defending my standpoint initially, but this never worked out well. The only exception to this is if the girl is a genuine bitch in which case I wouldn’t waste any time and block her.
For reasons unknown to mankind, girls would occasionally not reply or respond in any way to my messages. Initially, I thought the signal was very clear. No response means no interest. However, for the hell of it, I just continued sending one or two additional messages and the girls started responding again.
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I am not quite sure what the reason for unresponsiveness is, perhaps they forget to respond or are busy at the time of reading the message. Honestly, I don’t really care because the lesson here is to continue messaging a girl – even after she doesn’t respond to the first or second message.
As soon as a girl responds to a message on TF, it’s important to get her contact information and take the conversation elsewhere – ideally to LINE. Continuing to chat on ThaiFriendly, you’ll just be one of many guys, but on her LINE, you are now shortlisted. If she wants to continue chatting on TF, it usually leads nowhere and is a huge drain to your time.
Most importantly, checking the girl’s pictures – on TF and Line – reduce the chances of a bad surprise. Meeting with a girl that you don’t want to bang is ultimate failure and a waste of your and the girl’s time.
Let’s be honest, girls take pictures all the time and are good at it. They know how to get the angle right and maximize whatever their physical strength is. Often times, when I don’t like one of her pictures, I think twice about meeting her.
Making Sex Happen
Usually, getting to meet the girl is pretty forward and in most cases, it happens pretty quickly. Many of the girls I’ve slept with only started chatting with me on the same day.
Right upon meeting, the first thing that was new to me was to not shake hands, kiss the girl on the cheeks or doing anything of physical nature. It was a bit weird when I still did this on the first couple of dates until I was kindly reminded that, “This is Thailand“. People don’t usually shake hands here and when you meet a girl it’s absolutely unnecessary. You can do it, but it’s probably more weird than helpful.
After meeting her, the biggest mistake is thinking she is not interested and thus not trying to have sex. This is a mistake I have made many times in the past and a lot of men still make to this day – making the decision for the girl! They say, “Oh, I don’t think she would like that!“, instead of just finding out whether or not she is up for it.
This is never an excuse and I’ve had some valuable experiences related to this. Some of the girls seemed very reserved and not excited at all when we first met, yet I still took them straight to my room and had sex. At least 3 girls said that they won’t have sex with me and need to know somebody better before getting intimate. Needless to say, I banged all of them, mouthf*cked one and made another squirt and scream in the shower.
Ironically, it was the girl that was the most resistant that ended up going out of control and screaming so hard that for anyone walking past my condo, it would’ve been difficult to figure out whether she was screaming for pleasure or getting raped.
Spending time on boring dates – think coffee or getting drinks – is rarely necessary and I would rather lose the girl by being to forward than waste time and money on stupid dates. Unless you genuinely enjoy spending time with them, bring them straight to your room or a place where you can have sex.
Common Obstacles + Solutions
Don’t find the girl attractive? – Well, there’s multiple ways to handle such a situation. I am a nice guy and wouldn’t just leave the girl waiting had I seen her from the distance already and know that I don’t like her. When I make plans to meet up, then I will do exactly that. The radically honest way would be telling her that it’s not a fit right after meeting her. The second best solution is spending a bit of time with her and then letting her know that you have to leave at a specific time. No heartbreaks here.
Girl wants to sleep over after sex. – Mostly, I would meet girls around 8pm, so after sex it would usually be 10pm and many girls assumed sleeping at my place was self-evident. Despite banging lots of different girls, I still want to make each one feel better off after the encounter. I will cuddle afterwards and let some of the girl even sleep at my place.
I had to “kick out” one girl pretty quickly because I had made plans to meet with a friend the same night. Afterwards, she told me that she felt bad about the experience and thus I invited her over again and let her sleep over. Yes, that’s how nice I am.
Dealing with a situation like this is different with every girl. One way is to just ask whether you should bring her to the MRT/BTS station or she will take a taxi, or you can simply mention that at X time, you need to leave because you have an appointment. If I didn’t have any other plans for the night and liked the girl, I would let her stay.
Really, as long as a girl still responds, she isn’t out of reach. Thinking you can’t bang a certain girl is a limiting belief and over time, experience will teach you otherwise. Plenty of girls that I slept with, initially, I didn’t even think I would ever meet up with any of them. I really can’t stress this enough: don’t limit yourself thinking any girl is out of reach!
The only reason to stop pursuing a girl is if you’re not interested anymore, she is too much of an effort for your taste or just a pain in the ass. You will miss out on a lot of hot pussy, thinking she is too hot or unattainable – while she is still responding to your messages.
3 Bonus Tips
Bring condoms. Plenty and the right size. On more than one occasion I ran out of condoms and couldn’t fuck the girl another time. Also, condom sizes in Bangkok are rathery small for Westerners and even bigger sized “comfort” versions were to tight and a HUGE, FUCKING pain in the ass to put on.
Condoms that are too tight easily cut off blood flow to a certain extend and then maintaining an erection becomes an issue. The condoms you get at 7-11 or similar stores are only up to 56mm in nominal width – the biggest ones! I would recommend heading to Tesco Lotus or Bic see to find a size that fits you.
Girls asking for additional pictures was a common theme. Obviously the best way is to have multiple great pictures uploaded and avoid this issue altogether. In my case, I only had a great profile picture and nothing else. Many girls asked for additional pictures when we chatted on Line, but I always ignored their request. On occasion, I would say I send it later and then just forget about it on purpose. I don’t think it’s about the picture per se, it’s more about trust and this can easily be established by handing out your phone number.
Handing out your phone number is a great way of establishing trust. On many occasions the girl asked for additional pictures, yet after she called me and we had talked on the phone, sending pictures was out of question and we would just meet for the date. It’s easy to understand that girls asks for pictures. They’re concerned about being scammed or that there’s actually an old pervert sitting behind the screen – and not the hot guy she can see in the picture.